24. PREFACE - When we are unsure about something we have to do, before anything else, we should ask ourselves the following questions:
1st) Will what I am hesitating about cause harm to anyone? 2nd) Will it be useful to anyone?
3rd) If someone did this to me would I be pleased?
If what we think of doing is of interest only to ourself, it is permissible to weigh the personal advantages or disadvantages which may arise.
If it concerns others and if, in doing good for one person, it redounds in badness for another, it is also equally necessary to weigh the advantages and disadvantages before deciding whether to act or abstain.
Finally, even when dealing with the best of things it is necessary to consider the opportunity and the circumstances being offered, in as much as something that is good in itself con give bad results when put into the wrong hands, or if it is not directed with prudence and circumspection. Before putting it into effect it is best to consult our strength and the means of execution.
In any case, we can always solicit the assistance of our Protecting Spirits, remembering this wise maxim: When in doubt, do nothing (See chapter 28, item 38).