CHAPTER XII
MORAL PERFECTION
Virtues and vices.—Passions.—Selfishness.—Characteristics of a virtuous person.
—Self-knowledge.
Virtues and vices.
893. Which is the most admirable of all the virtues?
“All virtues are admirable, as they all are signs of progress on the
moral path. Every act of voluntary resistance to the seductive influence
of temptations for wrongdoing is a sign of virtue, but the sublimity of
virtue entails the sacrifice of self-interest for the good of others without
having any ulterior motives. The most admirable of all virtues is that
which is based on charity and is the most fair-minded.”
894. Some people do good spontaneously, without having to overcome any
conflicting feelings. Is there as much merit in their action as in that of others
who have to struggle to overcome the imperfections of their own nature in
order to do good?
“Those who no longer struggle against selfishness have already accomplished
a certain amount of progress. They have struggled and
succeeded, and they no longer have to put forth any effort into behaving
morally or justly. Doing good is perfectly natural to them, because
kindness has become a habit that they have acquired. They should be
honored as veterans are. They have earned their medals.”
“As you are still far from perfection, their behavior is astonishing
to you because their action contrasts so strongly with that of the rest
of humankind, and you admire it given its rarity. However, the exception
in your world is the rule in more advanced worlds. Goodness is
everywhere in those worlds because they are only inhabited by good
spirits, and even a single foul intention would be considered an exceptional
monstrosity. That is why these worlds are happy and it will be
the same on Earth when the human race has been transformed, and
understands and practices the law of charity in its true meaning.”
895. Besides the obvious faults and vices, what is the most characteristic sign
of imperfection?
“Self-interest. Moral qualities are too often like gilding on copper
that cannot withstand the acid test. Some individuals may possess good
qualities that help them to appear to be virtuous, but those qualities,
despite proving that they have made a certain amount of progress,
may not be capable of standing trial. The slightest disturbance of their
narcissism is enough to reveal their true nature. Absolute disinterestedness
is so rare on Earth, that when you do encounter it you may very
well view it as a phenomenon.”
“Attachment to material things is a sign of inferiority, because the
more you care for the things of this world, the less you understand
your destiny. Your disinterestedness, on the contrary, proves that you
have a more elevated view of the future.”
896. Are there people who are indiscriminately generous and who dole out
their money without doing any real good due to their lack of a reasonable
plan? Is there any merit in their action?
“They have the merit of disinterestedness, but not that of the good
they might do. While disinterestedness is a virtue, thoughtless spending
reveals a lack of judgment, to say the least. Fortune is no more given
to some individuals to be thrown away than to others to be locked
up in a safe. This is a deposit for which they will have to render an
account. They will have to answer for all the good they might have
done, but also that which they failed to do. As well as all the tears they
could have dried with the money they wasted on those who did not
truly need it.”
897. Is it wrong if people do good in the hope that they will be rewarded in the
next life, and that their situation will be better there for having done it? Will
such an act have unfavorable consequences on their advancement?
“You should do good for the sake of charity, meaning disinterestedly.”
a) It is completely natural to want to advance to be free from this painful
life. The spirits tell us to do good to reach this end. Is it wrong to hope that,
through doing good, we may be better off than we are on Earth?
“Of course not. But those who do good impulsively, simply for the
sake of pleasing God and providing relief to their suffering neighbors,
have already reached a higher degree of advancement and are closer
to reaching ultimate happiness than their brothers and sisters who,
being more selfish, do good in hopes of receiving a reward, instead of
being compelled by the goodness of their own hearts.” (See no. 894.)
b) Should a distinction be made between the good we do for our neighbors
and the effort we put forward to correct our own faults? We understand that
there is little merit in doing good with the idea that we will be rewarded in the
next life. Is it also a sign of inferiority to fix ourselves, conquer our passions,
correct whatever flaws we may have, in the hope of bringing ourselves closer to
good spirits and elevating ourselves?
“No, by doing good we merely mean being charitable. Those who
count, in every charitable deed they do, how much they will be rewarded,
in this life or the next, act selfishly. However, there is no selfishness
in improving one’s self in the hope of getting closer to God, which
should be everyone’s goal.”
898. Physical life is only a temporary stopover and our future life is what we
should care about primarily. Is there any point in trying to acquire scientific
knowledge that only refers to the objects and wants of this world?
“Of course there is. This knowledge enables you to benefit humankind.
Also, if your spirit has already progressed in intelligence, it will
rise faster in the spirit life and learn in an hour what it would take years
to learn on Earth. No knowledge is useless since it all contributes to
your advancement in one form or another. A perfect spirit must know
everything and progress must be made in every direction. All acquired
ideas help forward development.”
899. Out of two rich individuals who both use their wealth solely for their personal
satisfaction, one was born into affluence and has never known want, the
other earned his or her wealth by personal labor, which is more shameful?
“The one who knows suffering and does nothing to relieve it. He
or she knows unrelieved pain Too often, this person no longer remembers
the difficulties it has endured.”
900. Can those who constantly accumulate wealth, without doing good for
anyone, find an excuse in the fact that they will leave a large fortune to
their heirs?
“This is a compromise with a bad conscience.”
901. Imagine a scenario with two miserly individuals. One forgoes the necessities
of life and dies in want surrounded by treasures. The other is self-indulgent
and cheap with respect to others. This person winces at making the
smallest sacrifice for others or serving a noble cause while the cost of indulging
personal passions is inconsequential. This individual is always short on
funds when kindness is asked for others, but has plenty of money to satisfy
any of his own whims. Which of them is more disgraceful? Which one will be
worse off in the spirit world?
“The one who recklessly spends money on personal pleasures, because
he or she is more selfish than miser. The other is already undergoing
a part of the atonement.”
902. Is it wrong to wish for wealth as a means of doing good?
“Such a desire is admirable when it is pure, but is it always truly disinterested?
Don’t people first desire to do good for themselves?”
903. Is it wrong to study other people’s faults?
“To do so merely for the sake of criticizing or exposing them is
wrong, because it demonstrates a lack of charity. To do so for your own
benefit to avoid replicating those flaws may sometimes be useful but
you must not forget that understanding the faults of others is one of
the elements of charity. Before criticizing others for their flaws, you
should look at yourself and see if others could criticize you for the
same faults. The only way to profit by such a critical examination of
other’s faults is by trying to acquire the opposite virtues. Are those you
criticize cheap? Be generous. Are they proud? Be humble and modest.
Are they callous? Be gentle. Are they cruel and petty? Be great in everything
that you do. Basically, act in such a way so that it may not be said
of you, in Jesus’ words, that you ‘see the speck in your neighbor’s eye,
but do not see the beam in your own.’”
904. Is it wrong to probe the plagues of society and revealing them?
“That depends on the motive behind this action. If a writer’s only
purpose is to create a scandal, he or she obtains personal satisfaction
from presenting images or situations that are corruptive rather than
instructive. The mind perceives the evils of society, but those who
take pleasure in portraying evil for the sake of evil will be punished
for doing so.”
a) In this case, how can we judge the purity of intention and the sincerity
of the authors?
“It is not always necessary. If authors write good things, you profit
by them. If they write bad things, it is a question of conscience. However,
if they want to prove their sincerity, do they do it by the excellence
of their own example?”
905. There are great books that are full of moral teachings from which their authors
have not derived much moral profit despite helping the progress of humanity.
Is the good those authors do by their writings be counted to them as spirits?
“Professing the principles of morality without subsequent action
is like having a seed without completing the sowing. What is the point of having the seed, if you do not make it bear fruit to feed you?
These authors are even guiltier, because they possess the intelligence
that enables them to understand. By not practicing the virtues they
recommend to others, they fail to enjoy the harvest they could reap
themselves.”
906. Is it wrong for those who do good to be conscious of the goodness of their
deed, and to acknowledge that goodness to themselves?
“Since human beings are aware of the bad they do, they must also
be aware of the good they do as well. It is only by this recognition of
their conscience that they can know whether they have done good or
bad. By weighing all their actions according to God’s law, especially
the law of justice, love and charity, they can decide whether they are
good or bad, and can approve or disapprove of those actions accordingly.
Therefore, it is not wrong to recognize the fact that they have
triumphed over evil and rejoice in having done so, provided that this
does not turn into narcissism, because that would be as reprehensible
as any of the faults over which they have triumphed.” (See no. 919.)
Passions.
907. As our passions are rooted in nature, are they bad in themselves?
“No, it is only their abuse or excess that is bad. The principle of
all passions has been given to human beings for their own good, and
these passions may spur them to accomplish great things. It is only
their abuse that does harm.”
908. How can we define the limit at which passions cease to be good or bad?
“Passions are like a horse that is positive or useful when under
control, but dangerous when untamed. A passion becomes wicked the
moment you lose control of it, and when it causes harm to yourselves
or others.”
Passions are switches that greatly increase your powers, and
help you carry out God’s designs. If you allow yourself to be
ruled by your passions instead of controlling them, you become
a victim of excess. The same force that can be useful
ends up annihilating you.
All the passions are rooted in a natural sentiment or want.
They are not bad in themselves, since they constitute one of
the God-given conditions of our existence. “Passion” usually
signifies the exaggeration of a need or feeling, it lies in the
excess and not in the cause, and such excess becomes evil when
it results in some kind of evil. Every passion that brings human beings closer to an animalistic nature carries them farther away
from the spiritual nature. On the contrary, every feeling that
raises human beings above the animal nature demonstrates the
dominance of their spiritual side over their animal side and
brings them closer to perfection.
909. Are an individual’s own efforts enough to vanquish his or her bad
tendencies?
“Yes, a very small effort is often all that is needed. It is the will that is
missing. It is quite astounding how few of you make any serious effort!”
910. Can human beings obtain effective help from spirits in overcoming
their passions?
“If they address a sincere prayer for such help to God, good spirits
will help them as it is their duty to do so.” (See no. 459.)
911. Are passions sometimes so fierce and irresistible that the will is powerless
to withstand them?
“Many people say ‘I want to,’ but their will in only on their lips.
They are not genuinely sorry when what they want does not happen.
When people are unable to conquer their passions, it is because they
take pleasure in yielding to them. Those who can control their passions
understands their spiritual nature and know that every victory
over them is a triumph of their spirit over matter.”
912. What is the most effective means of fighting the predominance of the
corporeal nature?
“Practicing self-denial.”
Selfishness.
913. What vice may we label as the root of the others?
“Selfishness, as we have repeatedly told you. Every wrongdoing can
be traced back to selfishness. Study all the vices, and you will see that
selfishness is at the root of them all. You will never succeed in eradicating
them until, you attack them at their root, only then you have
destroyed the selfishness that is their cause. All your efforts should be
focused on this end, as selfishness is the plague of human society. All
those who attempt to reach moral excellence must uproot every selfish
feeling from their hearts, because it is incompatible with justice, love
and charity; it offsets all other qualities.”
914. As it is rooted in personal interest, it seems to be very difficult to entirely
remove selfishness from the human heart. Is it possible?
“As human beings become enlightened in regard to spiritual
things, they attach less value to material things. As they free themselves
from the shackles of matter, they reform the human institutions that
foster selfishness. This is accomplished through education.”
915. As selfishness is inherent to the human race, will it not always be an
obstacle to the reign of absolute goodness on Earth?
“Selfishness is your greatest evil, but it belongs to the spirits incarnated
on Earth who are of an inferior nature and not to the entirety
of the human race. Consequently, those spirits, in purifying themselves
through successive lives, shed their selfishness like all their other
impurities. Are there none among you who have rid themselves of
selfishness, and who practice charity on Earth? There are more than
you think, but they are not well-known because virtue does not seek
to bask in the spotlight. If one individual like this exists, why should
there not be ten? If there are ten, why should there not be one thousand,
and so on?”
916. Selfishness increases with the civilization that seems to strengthen and
intensify it. How can the cause destroy the effect?
“The greater the wickedness the more hideous it is. Selfishness has
to do a vast amount of harm, so that you may understand how crucial
the need is to eradicate it. When human beings overcome selfishness,
they will live like brothers and sisters by mutually helping each other
through a sense of solidarity. The strong will then support the weak,
rather than oppress them, and no one will lack the necessities of life
because everyone will obey the law of justice. This reign of good is what
the spirits are responsible for preparing.” (See no. 784.)
917. How can we overcome selfishness?
“Of all human imperfections, selfishness is the most difficult to
uproot. It is influenced by matter, from which human beings, still too
close to their origin, have not yet been able to break loose, as human
laws, society and education all support it. Selfishness will be gradually
weakened as your moral life gains dominance over your material life,
through the knowledge that Spiritism gives you regarding the reality
of your future life, stripped of allegories and metaphors. When Spiritism
is properly understood and identified with beliefs and habits of
humankind, it will transform all your customs, traditions and social
relations. Selfishness is based on the importance you attribute to your
own personality. Spiritism makes you look at everything from such an
elevated standpoint that all sense of individuality is lost in confronting this immensity. Spiritism battles selfishness by destroying self-importance
and revealing its true nature.”
“Human beings often become selfish by experiencing the selfishness
of others, which makes them feel the need to put themselves on
the defensive. Seeing that others think of themselves and not of you
causes you to think of yourself rather than others. Charity and fraternity
must become the basis of all social institutions, the legal relations between
nations and individuals. Only then will individuals think less of
their own personal interests, because they will realize that others have
thought of them. Humankind will then experience the upright influence
of example and contact. Amidst the present deluge of selfishness,
considerable virtue is needed for human beings to sacrifice their own
interests for the sake of others, and those who make such a sacrifice
often receive little gratitude for such restraint. Those who possess this
virtue are welcomed into the kingdom of Heaven with open arms,
while those who have thought only of themselves will be cast aside on
judgment day, and left to suffer in loneliness.” (See no. 785.)
Fénelon.
Praiseworthy efforts are being put forward to help advance the
progress of humanity. Kind and charitable thoughts are encouraged,
stimulated and honored now more than at any other
time in history, and yet selfishness continues to plague society.
It is a social disease that affects everyone, of which everyone
is more or less the victim, and should be fought like any other
epidemic. To this end, we must emulate the methodology
of a skilled physician and begin by tracing the disease to its
origin. We must seek out, in every division of human society,
from families to nations, from the hut to the palace, all the obvious
and obscure causes and influences that sustain and foster
selfishness. Once the causes of the disease are established, the
remedy presents itself spontaneously through the combined efforts
of all, and the virus is destroyed gradually. The cure may
take a long time, because the causes are numerous, but it is not
impossible. That being said, it can only be successful by getting
to the root of the evil; that is, through education. Not the education
that aims only to educate people; but the one that also
aims to make them moral individuals.
Proper education is the key to moral progress. When the art of
training the moral nature of human beings is as easily understood
as the art of training the intellect, a corrupt nature can be
straightened out just like a crooked sapling. However, this practice
demands a great deal of tact, experience, and profound observation. It is a huge mistake to assume that possessing
scientific knowledge alone is enough to enable the teacher to
exercise it successfully. If we study, for instance, the lives of children,
whether rich or poor, and note all the bad influences
that act upon their weaknesses from the moment of their birth,
taking into account the ignorance and negligence of those who
are responsible for the upbringing of these children, and the
improper means employed in moralizing them, it is no wonder
to find so much wrong in the world.. If the same skill and care
is given to the training of the moral nature as to that of the intellect,
human beings would discover that if there are obstinate
natures, there are also, in a greater number than you might
think, those who require only the proper cultivation in order
to yield good fruit. (See no. 872.)
Human beings want to be happy and this natural desire prompts
them to work tirelessly to improve their condition on Earth,
and seek out the causes of their ills in order to address them.
When they understand thoroughly that selfishness stimulates
pride, ambition, greed, envy, hatred and jealousy and causes
constant distress, that it brings trouble to all social relations,
provokes conflict, destroys confidence, turns friends into enemies,
and forces each individual to remain constantly on the
defense against each other, then they will also see that this vice
is incompatible with both happiness and security. The more
they suffer from selfishness, the more intensely they feel the
need to fight it, just as they fight diseases, dangerous animals,
and every other source of disaster. They are compelled to act as
such out of their own best interest. (See no. 784)
Selfishness is the source of all vices, just as charity is the source
of all virtues. Destroying one while developing the other should
be the goal for all those who seek to guarantee happiness in the
present life and in the next.
Characteristics of a virtuous person.
918. Are there signs indicating that humans have achieved the progress that
will raise them in the spirit hierarchy?
“The elevation of incarnate spirits is demonstrated by the compliance
of all their actions in the physical life with God’s law, and by their
understanding of spiritual life.”
Truly virtuous individuals are those who practice the law of
justice, love and charity, in their purest form. If people question
their consciences in regard to their actions, they will ask themselves whether they have violated the law or done anything
wrong, whether they have done all the good in their power,
whether no one has reason to complain about them, and
whether they have done to others everything that they would
wish others to do to them.
When people are overwhelmed by feelings of charity and kindness
for all, they do good for the sake of doing good, without
looking for a reward, and they sacrifice their interests for
justice.
They are kind, compassionate and humane to all, because they
view everyone as their brothers and sisters, regardless of race
or creed.
If God has given them power and wealth, they consider them
DEPOSITS confided to them for the general good. They are
not arrogant because they know that what God has given God
can take away at any time.
When society makes people dependent on them, they treat
them with kindness and compassion, as equals before God.
They use authority to elevate them morally, rather than crushing
them with their pride.
They are indulgent in relation to others’ weaknesses, knowing
that they too need indulgence, and remembering Christ’s
words, “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.”
They are not vindictive and follow the example of Jesus, forgiving
all offenses, as they know that they will only obtain forgiveness
as they forgive others and themselves.
Finally, they respect the rights of others, as established by the
law of nature, as they would want others to respect their rights.
Self-knowledge.
919. What is the most effective method for guaranteeing self-improvement
and resisting the attraction of wrongdoing?
“A philosopher of antiquity once said, ‘Know thyself.’”
a) We fully admit the wisdom of this saying, but self-knowledge is precisely
what is most difficult to achieve. How can we acquire it?
“Do what I myself used to do during my life on Earth. At the end
of each day I would assess my conscience, review everything that I
had done, and I would ask myself whether I had failed in some duty,
whether someone might have reason to complain of me. It was thus that I arrived at knowing myself and in seeing what there was in me
that needed to be reformed. If you review all your actions of the day
every evening, asking yourself whether you have done good or bad,
and praying for enlightenment from God and your guardian angel,
you would acquire great strength for self-improvement because God
would assist you. Ask yourself these questions, what you have done,
what was your aim, whether you have done anything that you would
find fault for in another, or whether you have done anything that you
would be ashamed to admit. Also ask yourself: If God called me into
the spirit life at this moment in time, where nothing is hidden, would
I dread seeing anyone? Review what you may have done, first against
God, second against your neighbor, and lastly, against yourself. The
answers to these questions will either settle your conscience, or reveal
some wrong that you will have to remedy.”
“Self-knowledge is the key to individual improvement. However,
you may ask, ‘How does one judge one’s self? Aren’t all human beings
subject to the illusions of arrogance, which diminishes their flaws in
their own eyes and makes it possible to find excuses for them? Misers
think that they are merely practicing economy and foresight, while
proud individuals think their pride is dignity.’ This is true, but there is
a way of proceeding that cannot deceive you. When you are in doubt
regarding any of your actions, ask yourself what your judgment would
be if it were done by another. If you would find cause for reproach in
another, it cannot be less reprehensible when done by you because
God’s justice is universal for all. Try to discover what others think and
do not overlook the opinion of your enemies because they have no
interest in disguising the truth, and God often places them in your life
to serve as a mirror to warn you in a manner more frank than that of
a friend. Those who are firmly resolved in achieving self-improvement
must review their conscience in order to uproot their evil inclinations,
just as they uproot weeds from their gardens. Every night they should
settle their moral accounts for the day, just as businessmen account for
their profits and losses. They can rest assured that the former will be
a much more profitable operation than the latter. Those who can say
that the balance is in their favor may sleep peacefully, and await their
return to the spirit life without fear.”
“Ask yourself clear and precise questions, and do not hesitate to
ask them often. You should devote a few minutes to guaranteeing happiness
that will last forever. Do you not work every day so that you
may rest when you have reached old age? Is this rest not the object
of your desires, the aim that helps you endure your current hardships
and deprivation? What comparison is there between a few days of rest, impaired by the weaknesses of the body, and the endless rest
that awaits the virtuous? Is the latter not worth a slight effort? I know
that many will say, ‘The present is certain, and the future uncertain,’
but this is precisely the error that we must erase from your minds by
showing you your future in such a way as to leave no shred of doubt.
This is why, having begun by producing phenomena designed to grab
your attention by appealing to your senses, we now give you the moral
teachings that each of you must in turn spread. This is why we have
dictated The Spirits’ Book.”
Saint Augustine.
We commit many faults that go unnoticed. If we followed the
advice of Saint Augustine and examined our conscience more
often, we would see how many times we have failed without
even realizing it, due to our lack of scrutinizing the nature and
reason behind our actions. The interrogative form is more precise
than a maxim that often is not applied. It requires “yes” or
“no” responses that leave no room for interpretation. These are
personal arguments and by the sum of the responses, we can
estimate the sum of good and evil within us.